If you have spent time on Pinterest trying to find inspiration for your wedding, you have probably seen the same trends over and over again. Many trends are beautiful, but several of them are slightly overused. Your wedding day should be unique and special. Your guests should be able to see a bit of who you are as a couple incorporated into your wedding. We have come up with a variety of ways you can incorporate your personal style, interests, and relationship into your wedding day. These ideas will be sure to make your wedding day one your guests will never forget.
Decor
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Choosing decor that fits your style as a couple is a great way to make your wedding unique. If you are known as a couple that likes to travel, find small ways to tie this in with your decor. One idea would be to display globes as your centerpieces, and put a note on each location you have traveled to.
Guestbooks
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Instead of using a traditional guest book, which might get stored in a box and not brought out again, you can have guests sign an item that you will be sure to see everyday. If you are both into music, you can have them sign a guitar that can be displayed in your home. Another great idea is to have your guests fill out a card with their favorite advice for marriage. You can put this in a book and display it on your coffee table.
A Grooms Cake
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This is a great way to show off the groom's personal style. This cake doesn’t have to be your traditional white wedding cake. You can have a bakery make one that shows of your future husband's love for fishing, hunting, football, or basketball.
Upgraded Welcome Bags
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If you decide to do welcome bags for your guests from out of town, include personal touches that make each of your guests feel like a true VIP. You can include a map of the town they will be staying in, a personal note from the bride and groom, and you can even go as far as putting their favorite candy or snacks in the bag.
Grand Exit
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We have all seen the bubble and sparkler exit over and over. If you are looking for unique ideas to make a grand exit, check out this blog post for great ideas. We think the cowbells would be perfect for a Spruce Mountain wedding exit.
Unexpected Wedding Music
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Instead of hiring a traditional wedding band or DJ to come play at your wedding, why not hire a fun mariachi band? If you have any traditional music from your culture, this would be a great time to show it off.
Make Your Menu Unique To Your Relationship
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This is a great place to really incorporate the story of your relationship. Have your caterer recreate the meal you shared on your first date. On your menu, you can share with your guests the story of your first date. You can also have the caterer put a fun spin on each of your favorite foods.
Make You Bride & Groom Chairs Unique
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Adding garland and flowers to your bride and groom chairs is a great way to add personal character into your wedding. You can also hang signs on the back of your chair with nicknames for each other.
Incorporate Your Family
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Incorporating your family into your wedding day is so important. This can be done in a variety of different ways. Ask each of your parents and grandparents for photos of them on their wedding day to display during your reception.
Personalize Your Cocktail Napkins
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If you are having your invitations professionally done, ask if they can make a design with your initials and wedding date to go on cocktail napkins.
Give Each Table an Escort Card That Relates To Your Courtship
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How cute would a card like this be for a couple who met in China? On the back of the card, you can write a short note about this part of your relationship. You can also let your guests know that there is a card placed on each table, and if they want to find out more about your courtship, they can head to another table to read about it. This will give them the opportunity to get up and mingle with guests they may not know.
Incorporate A Bit Of Culture
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If you have traditional wedding customs that come from your culture or religion, your wedding is the perfect place to show them off. Most couples include these customs during their ceremony, but you can also keep them going through your reception. This can be done through your music or food.
Bowtie Bar
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Does your future husband love bowties? What about a bowtie bar for all of the male guests? We love how this couple displayed these bowties.
Ceremony Quote
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If you have a favorite quote or verse that speaks to your relationship, you can have it written out on a large piece of paper to display as your ceremony backdrop.
Infographic
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Create an infographic about your relationship. You can include details like how long you have known each other, where you met, and how long you have been engaged. This is a great way to tell your guests more about your relationship.
These 15 ideas are sure to make your wedding feel unique and special. Your guests will love that you put in the time to incorporate small details into your wedding to tell them more about your relationship, family, and your interest. There are so many ways to get creative at your wedding. All you need to do is think about your interests as a couple and make sure they are included.